Should children be told about the war in Ukraine? If so, how can this violent conflict be explained without worrying them too much? Since the Russian military offensive, many parents have pondered these questions. If you don’t know how to approach the subject, here are some ideas to help you.
Keep children away from screens
Since this Thursday, February 24, 2022, the shocking and violent images of the war in Ukraine can be seen on all screens. Bombings, cannons, convoys of tanks… scenes of great cruelty that can shock the youngest, but also the most sensitive among us. So, to reassure children, it is best not to expose them too much to these images or videos of war.
Say what’s on your mind
According to the doctors interviewed by our colleagues from France 2, war should not be taboo within the family. Therefore, it is advisable to talk about it freely with your child, especially by entrusting your fears to him. “If the parents are concerned, they should say they are concerned, otherwise the child will not understand the messages” explains psychiatrist Serge Hefez.
Explain without going into too much detail
According to Serge Hefez, ‘It’s not about saying everything about reality’† Indeed, in order not to worry the child, it is better not to overwhelm him with details about the current conflict. Do not shy away from his questions, but answer him as simply as possible.
View (a signed report) France 2†
Valuable advice to adopt.